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Saturday, March 01, 2008 -{'8:48 PM
Hari nie, aku betul-betul terkejut bila tetiba Has bertanyakan sesuatu yg pada aku. Dia bertanya kalu dia nk kahwin in the age of 23, aper pendapat aku...So Nira jawap lah sejujur-jujurnya. To me, it's like to early to get married at the age of 23...ya, mmg tk bole dinafikan jodoh pertemuan,ajal,maut ditentukan oleh Allah...tp kita sebagai manusia sepatutnya at least kena bersedia secara physical, mental and financial kalu nk kahwin. Hal nikah kahwin nie kan tk bole dibuat main2...lgpn hal nikah kahwin nie kan utk sepanjang hayat bukan hari nie suka kahwin, esok lusa tk suka,cerai...bole gitu??? Hal nie kita kena fikir very seriously because kita memperjudikan masa depan kita.
Pada Nira, bila kita dah betul2 stable especially dari segi kewangan, baru lah fikir hal2 nie semua.Dia jugak ader tnya Nira, bila Nira plan nk kahwin...i mean the suitable age la...so Nira jawap la yg Nira akan ready to get married bila Nira dah very2 stable in my financial, in my career...jd kalu aper2 jd lepas kahwin example mcm bercerai ke, etc, at least kita ader something to hold on. And one more thing, tat guy yg kita pilih tu biar lah sepadan ngn kita and mesti stable dr segi kewangan, kerja yg bole menjamin masa depan,etc...To me, the ideal age to get married is about 26-28 yrs old,so skrg nie umur Nira dah nk masuk 22...so ader lagi 4-6 yrs lg tu think abt tis...haha, tp nie kan semua urusan Allah.Kalu jodoh cepat,cepat lah ia...kalu lambat,lambat lah.
Den dia tnya pulak wat if kalu dier nk bertunang...well to me tk kisah lah sgt kalu nk bertunang tp biar lah kita betul2 fikir...But watever it is, it's all up to her. As long she's happy, then I wll be happy even though I think tat all tis is so fast.
WORDS OF THE DAY:-
Don’t find love, let love find you. That’s why it is called falling in love...because you don’t force yourself to fall, you just fall.
P/S: To Has, if u r reading tis blog of mine, aku harap kau tk kecik hati ngn aper yg aku tulis kn di blog ku nie...”Nie hanyalah pendapat aku sahaja”. Watever decision tat u make, which u think will bring happiness to u, I will be there to support and will be happy for u.
